tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2766349317463815055.post1119670603907729322..comments2023-06-27T01:22:41.616-07:00Comments on Pop*Princess: Frill 2013: An Honest Review pop*princesshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08754975403003452837noreply@blogger.comBlogger13125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2766349317463815055.post-66669114254643244982013-07-04T17:20:15.576-07:002013-07-04T17:20:15.576-07:00Sadly, they have not. I am uncertain if it is quit...Sadly, they have not. I am uncertain if it is quite something they are ready, or perhaps willing, to at least take responsibility for and apologize. Which any successful business model would suggest that it is the right thing to do, even if you feel you or your organization has done no wrong. A simple apology can go a long way in sustaining any relationship. But perhaps this is just me. <br /><br />Ah, some fashion shows do offer insurance to protect them of course if anything goes wrong, and others simply have you sign a waiver stating they are not responsible for damage. I believe it really depends on who it is you're working with! <br /><br />^^ <3 Well, any time I do hear from you makes me smile. I hope you lurk on the Pop Princess Facebook page as well, that way I can wave at you from time to time, no words required. :) It is always a pleasure to know you are around! <br /><br />:hugs: I hope you too have the best of summers, and are relaxing and having a lovely time! <br /><br /> <br /><br />pop*princesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08754975403003452837noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2766349317463815055.post-43363679609154173892013-07-02T00:59:28.739-07:002013-07-02T00:59:28.739-07:00I think it could - courage is sometimes contagious...I think it could - courage is sometimes contagious, God be praised:-) Has anyone from Frill got in touch with you yet, have they apologised? As for the damage, is there at least any kind of insurance for fashion shows? Sorry, I'm clueless about that, but it kind of bugs me that they could ruin your pieces into which you have poured hundreds of dollars and you'd get no compensation for them. <br />Mama was pleased to hear you are not giving up and making up plans what to do next - she likes your clothes a lot. As for your mom, that is lovely! Great minds think alike;-)<br /><br />I also like hearing from you - sadly most of the time I don't have the energy to keep up conversation, but I lurk around here often and read (and like) most of your posts:-) <br /><br />Have a wonderful summer, dear, and we all have fingers crossed for you *hugs*Rosahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14628792731221881082noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2766349317463815055.post-65097725299978735612013-06-18T08:30:37.413-07:002013-06-18T08:30:37.413-07:00Rosa, my sweet girl, it is always a pleasure to he...Rosa, my sweet girl, it is always a pleasure to hear from you. <br /><br />I find that it is very difficult for me to speak my mind, even to those I am close with, so I hope that in opening up and being completely crystal clear with my experiences that perhaps others will find the courage to speak up as well. <br /><br />I considered asking for compensation for the dresses that were damaged and the pieces that were lost, however I think that this is probably more trouble than its worth in the long run. I feel if they are unable to give a simple apology, or take even a small responsibility in the actions of what went wrong, than I can expect no more from them. In all reality, an apology was all I was looking for. Just to say, "Hey, we made a mistake. We're sorry, let's talk."<br /><br />Tell your dearest Mama that I appreciate her kind thoughts. And that I believe her and my mom would get along quite well, as she has also suggested that I do this with a group of designers. :) I think it is a good idea, and perhaps we ought to try! <br /><br />My biggest hug and many hearts and love,<br />Annikapop*princesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08754975403003452837noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2766349317463815055.post-87945726286220392232013-06-18T08:26:32.284-07:002013-06-18T08:26:32.284-07:00Dearest Roli, I again thank you for writing to me ...Dearest Roli, I again thank you for writing to me privately. I genuinely appreciate your support. <3 We will talk more I am certain! pop*princesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08754975403003452837noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2766349317463815055.post-5033099339437689112013-06-18T08:25:43.839-07:002013-06-18T08:25:43.839-07:00My Darling Girl, meeting you in person at the even...My Darling Girl, meeting you in person at the event was absolutely wonderful and I can say if nothing else, I was so happy to be able to do so. <br /><br />There is nothing wrong with you not speaking out about what a horrid experience you had at first year Frill, though I am glad that you shared it with me privately. I believe there is something wrong at the core with Frill if even the experiences of a handful are being sullied, regardless if they were attendees or designers. The goal should be to provide a pleasant, accepting, and supportive environment for the fashion and its wearers to grow and become closer together. A shred of respect goes a long way, even if it is only to maintain the air of being polite for appearances alone. <br /><br />If any platform wants to be successful, they need to learn to listen to what their patrons are saying and grow from those experiences rather than becoming stunted. I believe with a few small changes, Frill could become great.<br /><br />I think you did an amazing job in the show, and it was more than okay that you were busy with your girls and did not know I needed help. I was trying my very best to maintain calmness and be patient, even if it was on the outside alone. :)<br /><br />Your works, and you yourself as a person, are stunning!pop*princesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08754975403003452837noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2766349317463815055.post-22618918506945542882013-06-18T08:20:19.244-07:002013-06-18T08:20:19.244-07:00After this experience, I have been getting a few m...After this experience, I have been getting a few messages from girls from first year of Frill who have confirmed they too had a bad experience and did not return this year because of it. I find this deeply saddens me, especially to have to go through that alone and feel like an outsider, or worse someone made to feel that they didn't belong. If patrons are paying to network, enjoy, and spend time with fellow lolitas, they should have only the best experience and in the public, they should be treated like princesses, even if the directors gripe about them behind closed doors. It should not be a matter of public display.<br /><br />I only wonder if any of the attendees, non-designers, felt disappointed as well, especially if they were like me and flew all the way out there to attend! <br /><br />Again, thank you for your kind words and encouragement. I hope only to help! pop*princesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08754975403003452837noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2766349317463815055.post-20115848145264412362013-06-18T08:16:50.459-07:002013-06-18T08:16:50.459-07:00Kieli, as always your continued to support fills m...Kieli, as always your continued to support fills my heart with such happiness. I only hope to have some good come out of this if nothing else, as I do not believe that there needs to be any more unkindness in the world then there already is, especially in the lolita community. We have to respect each other if we ever want anyone else to! <3 xo I adore you!pop*princesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08754975403003452837noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2766349317463815055.post-65656398124038529542013-06-18T08:14:03.968-07:002013-06-18T08:14:03.968-07:00I wanted to thank each and every one of you for wr...I wanted to thank each and every one of you for writing me such beautiful, supportive comments of encouragement. I cannot express in words how deeply I appreciate you taking the time to do so, and also in messaging me privately. It was amazing to read each of these and know that you are there with me. <3 <br /><br />I adore you each! My biggest hugs and lots of love! `Annikapop*princesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08754975403003452837noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2766349317463815055.post-83559673989492323752013-06-18T01:38:58.400-07:002013-06-18T01:38:58.400-07:00This is absolutely horrible! I'm sorry you had...This is absolutely horrible! I'm sorry you had such an awful experience, Annika, that's really not how people should run any kind of a show. I haven't got any experience with fashion shows, but I used to sing with a choir in theatre and other venues, so I know what madness can sometimes ensue backstage (or even on stage, when the technology goes kaput) and can fully commiserate with the stress and panic you must have felt. Backstage and on stage, everybody should be a team - everybody should make sure others are okay, dressed and know what they are to do and when. I fully agree with you then that what you went through is unacceptable and you have got every right to voice your very reasonable objections and suggestions. And if I may, I applaud you for finding the courage to do so, seeing that you are so shy and considerate of other's feelings. May I ask if you will ask for compensation for the pieces lost and torn?<br />Also, as I read your post to my Mama, she suggested perhaps you girls who had a bad experience could get in touch with each other and create a show of your own, with professional standards? I understand it would be a painful lot of job and a great investment, but if Frill continues like this, perhaps it would be worth it to give it a try?<br />A big virtual bear-hug and lots of love<br /><br />Rosa<br />Rosahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14628792731221881082noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2766349317463815055.post-25122901660906812432013-06-17T21:52:20.905-07:002013-06-17T21:52:20.905-07:00It made me sad to read this. I'm and Australia...It made me sad to read this. I'm and Australian loli and seeing stuff about Frill last year and this year always made me excited to think that lolita was gaining momentum. But this is making me rethink.<br /><br />Thank you for sharing this with your readers as well as with the Frill staff, I think it's really helpful to be able to see the good, the bad and the ugly so thank you for sharing this. I think you wrote a very good letter - it's not accusing, you're just saying what happened and what the effect of that was.<br /><br />This isn't the most coherent comment, but I just wanted to say good on you for standing up for yourself this time, and I hope that your feedback will make for a better Frill fashion show next year.Rolihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17397860759056883709noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2766349317463815055.post-88829442486665195022013-06-17T19:39:54.205-07:002013-06-17T19:39:54.205-07:00Thank you so much for your honesty! I agree with a...Thank you so much for your honesty! I agree with a lot of the points you've brought up, but am too afraid/cowardly to publicize myself. I keep thinking to myself, "it's only the 2nd year, things will get better..", and so I try not to say anything negative. Plus I think the experience as an attendee is 100% completely different than the experience as a designer.<br /><br />I totally agree with you on the models for the fashion show. I'm participating in Frock On later this year, which like Frill, is an all-Lolita event, but in the UK. Recently I got to choose my own models (as in go through applications with both pictures & measurements! :D) for their fashion show, which was a joy to be able to do, and I don't understand why something like that can't be done for Frill. Anyways, this year I actually got the emails of my models (yes, it was like a week before the event, but at least I got them), whereas last year I didn't even know who my models were until a few hours right before the show. Both this year and last year I had models that didn't fit the clothes (last year the dress was WAY too big, and had to be safety pinned to hell to even stay on right, and this year the outfit was WAY too small), but I never said anything because I know there was a shortage of girls, and not everyone can get the exact model they need.<br /><br />Last year on top of not knowing what was going on, my models got their makeup done last. So this year, I made sure to bring my friend who also doubles as my makeup artist (she helps out on all my photo shoots, so she's someone I completely trust), so I wouldn't have to go through additional stress which helped a lot. I'm sure she would've been more than happy to help make up your models as well, but I was so busy running back and forth and everything I didn't realize you needed it /:<br /><br />Despite all the drama, both you and your garments looked gorgeous on the runway, and you never would've guessed so much had happened behind the scenes~MissChubihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10433772619217070196noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2766349317463815055.post-77944182286636862942013-06-17T18:41:17.298-07:002013-06-17T18:41:17.298-07:00This letter had to be written, and I thank you for...This letter had to be written, and I thank you for writing it.<br /><br />I am really sad that they would treat you and other people like that. You pay money and spend time to do this and yet they want to take people's money and give a sub par experience? That's not right, not in the least. I was put off by going to Frill this year from the things I heard from the first year. And I will not go to the event for sure if designers get treated like this. You have every right to be upset and disappointed since after all, it wasn't run very well and showed bias for certain people.<br /><br />The suggestions you made were great, and you were very level headed in your thought process and procedure. But that can only change if they're willing to change, which may not even happen.<br /><br />Your pieces were lovely and I can't wait to see more.Pawawanpihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13686706636487705864noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2766349317463815055.post-69728869159355790802013-06-17T18:16:49.685-07:002013-06-17T18:16:49.685-07:00First of all, I'd like to really give you prop...First of all, I'd like to really give you props for writing such a detailed letter. You made your points, reasons and even gave them some positivity. What you wrote needed to be said and it was all you. All honest. As a designer in a show, you have every right to give your opinion of how things are run. Like you said, these pieces are your babies. They're the end products of blood, sweat, tears and dreams that went into creation. I believe you have every right to feel what you feel after everything that happened. I especially am upset for you on the things that happened to your pieces. WHO DOES THAT?! That's like saying hey, it's not mine! Let's ruin it! No. You just don't do that! <br /><br />And while there are times where one must keep quiet, this was definitely not one of those times. I am glad you wrote this. And I only hope the organizers at Frill will do something about it. Especially if they want designers to come to next year's event. <br /><br />You did great, Anni! And I'm so proud of you <3<br />Kieli~♥キーリん♡https://www.blogger.com/profile/13393988259063590977noreply@blogger.com